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Are you interested in what she does? If the interest is one way rather than mutual, it's a challenge. Not necessarily a deal-breaker, but if you're lonely in yo
by anigbrowl 3y ago
Are you interested in what she does? If the interest is one way rather than mutual, it's a challenge. Not necessarily a deal-breaker, but if you're lonely in your main relationship and you're not comfortable just keeping different parts of your life in different boxes, that will become more of a burden with time because you will keep feeling ignored.
Some of this feeling may overlap with being an immigrant. Consider going home for a week or two (call it a business trip if you want) to see how that shapes your emotional perspective.
- tetris11 3y agoI am interested in what she does, but she takes no delight in explaining it to me, or explains it to me in a way that assumes I have no knowledge at all. I was home last week and definitely felt more understood, even by random strangers in coffee houses. I felt instantly validated. I just never feel that with her, or rarely. It hurts because we genuinely have good chemistry together and I care deeply for her and her me
- jmercouris 3y agoI think you've made the decision in your head. The painful part can be admitting it. I wish you well.