3 ms·Nobody's claiming nothing has changed, but that's not the source of the OP's grief.by closewith 3y agoNobody's claiming nothing has changed, but that's not the source of the OP's grief.coldtea 3y agoThe source of OP's grief is the changes he writes about. Or do you have some unique mentalist-style access to the "real source" that drives him?closewith 3y agoYes, that access is called perspective and it will come to you, too.