I generally agree with your sentiment (I abhor 'pass on' and that sort of euphemism for example) but perhaps the point was that most parents have children who n

I generally agree with your sentiment (I abhor 'pass on' and that sort of euphemism for example) but perhaps the point was that most parents have children who no longer require daycare or 'raising'? Or even that your spouse might be mainly responsible for it (they don't work, or have it sorted through work already), so it's not a concern for you when you look for a job.