yes but you also need to maintain/prepare for a time when the children won't need you so much. Mine are 16 and 19 but still need significant time. But you don'

yes but you also need to maintain/prepare for a time when the children won't need you so much. Mine are 16 and 19 but still need significant time. But you don't to all of a sudden realize they are off on their own life, and they were your primary, or even only, focus.