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The only reason I can imagine that somebody would genuinely like a long commute would be if they hate their home life and are trying to escape from it. They'd p
by bdw5204 3y ago
The only reason I can imagine that somebody would genuinely like a long commute would be if they hate their home life and are trying to escape from it. They'd probably be better off just getting a divorce instead.
- coldpie 3y agoMy commute is about 40 minutes each way by bus, plus a 5 minute walk on both ends. I love it. I get outdoors for a short walk four times a day, I read books and magazines on the bus, see what's being built or new businesses opening around town, sometimes I get to meet neighbors and other commuters, or help out random strangers with directions or whatever. My commute to work is definitely a benefit to my life.
- ProjectArcturis 3y agoIf you had a remote job, would you take a 40-minute round-trip bus ride twice a day just for the enjoyment of it?
- coldpie 3y agoNo.
- mikrl 3y agoDuring the summer when I work from home I take a 20 minute walk at 8:30 (and water my tomatoes) and a 20 minute walk at 12:00 before settling back into my home office with lunch. If I’m feeling up to it, I get another 30-40 minute walk in once it cools off in the evening. I don’t mind driving in during the winter though, because then I don’t have to pay to heat my house (beyond 15C for the cat) for the day.
- hospitalJail 3y agoThe human brain is incredible at rationalization.
- coldpie 3y agoIn this thread, hospitalJail discovers that some people enjoy leaving their basement :)
- hospitalJail 3y agoSTRAWMAN Flag this. No one is arguging for isolation I love to go to the park with my kids. I love going to parties. I don't like sitting in my car unpaid to do work that doesnt require sitting in the car unpaid.
- coldpie 3y agoI was explaining to someone why I enjoy my commute. It's totally OK if you don't enjoy yours! I would also hate having to sit in a car! People are different and have different situations and that's OK.
- helboi4 3y agoYeah I hate how the wierd basement dwellers are telling us how to handle our mental health. 99% of humans are not basement dwellers who don't like seeing people. People are becoming more socially awkward because our society is forgetting the fundamental social nature of human beings. So maybe some people think they like it. But the statistics don't lie - mental health is going off a fucking cliff. We're not meant to live like this. There are a few basement dwellers who are really that introverted, and there are some people who just have commutes that are THAT BAD (and that's bad town planning), but most people benefit from being outside our house for large portions of the week and having most of our communication being face to face. And that's just a fact.
- askonomm 3y agoThis is the most institutionalized-minded answer I have seen.
- coldpie 3y agoI don't know what this means, sorry.
- vidarh 3y agoNothing stops you from doing that if you work from home, so while the trip might be a benefit to you, it is entirely orthogonal from whether you work from home or an office. On the contrary, not being forced into the office let's you choose your journeys.
- coldpie 3y agoThis nearby comment does a good job explaining why that doesn't really work out for me: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39042945 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39042945
- vidarh 3y agoI can't help but feel that is a rationalisation.
- helboi4 3y agoNo. theres a reason why humans have always had routines that are agreed upon by society. We are social creatures. We are not made to be individualistic islands with all the responsibility to perfectly dial in our mental health ourselves.
- coldpie 3y agoI don't understand the point you're trying to make. You're arguing I would be a happier or better person if I stopped doing a thing I enjoy doing? Why?
- Retric 3y agoReading on a long buss/train ride can be inherently pleasant. Similarly not all car commutes are stuck alone in traffic, I rather enjoyed commuting with my dad.
- toast0 3y agoI had a bike / ferry / bike commute a couple days a week for a while. It was nice to get that exercise in, and I enjoy ferry rides too.
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- vidarh 3y agoI did once work with someone who intentionally found a job far enough from home that he could justify a "bachelor pad" in town and just go home to the family home at the weekends. I wonder what proportion of weekend commuters do it out of a desire to stay away vs. financial reasons.