I have no idea why you're downvoted, as this is a proper response. Many of us are living this hell. It's too expensive to leave the lazy partner, and they know

I have no idea why you're downvoted, as this is a proper response. Many of us are living this hell. It's too expensive to leave the lazy partner, and they know it. So you earn all the money, do 80% of the housework, and raise the children nearly yourself. They watch TikTok and Instagram all day, and your lawyer gives you an estimated price tag of well over a million dollars to escape. So you make the rational choice to remain in hell until you die, being her personal pack mule forever.