I personally follow the "I am the user, my rules" when it comes to language rules :P. It is at least as strong as "their word, their rules". Also I can see tha

I personally follow the "I am the user, my rules" when it comes to language rules :P. It is at least as strong as "their word, their rules". Also I can see that Paul Graham's "my website my rules" is even stronger than mine or DJ Delorie's, so Djgpp is also correct (if not by the Gods, then by fist).