Hold on, I forgot the details, I think I watched a few videos recommending it and then skimmed through it. Maybe I skimmed too fast but all I got was a long lis

Hold on, I forgot the details, I think I watched a few videos recommending it and then skimmed through it. Maybe I skimmed too fast but all I got was a long list of simple tricks to charm others (hence my comment). Maybe I missed the point entirely .. which would be ironic because clear expression and creating enjoyable group dynamic is probably my main quest since the last 5 years.