I definitely think that a lot of incel- and incel-adjacent behavior comes from a person's environment, and as such is not necessarily the incel's fault. (As th

I definitely think that a lot of incel- and incel-adjacent behavior comes from a person's environment, and as such is not necessarily the incel's fault. (As they say, things may not be one's fault but they are one's responsibility...) These women are not happy. They care more about impressing their peers and the man is just an accessory. I've had a decent number of female friends over the years while I know that there are all kinds of toxic people out there, I don't really see women acting this way in general especially as they progress into adulthood. Of course plenty of toxic counterexamples exist, I'm just talking about in general. There's something here I think that any time some kind of movement or thought paradigm gets traction, it's because there are some grains of truth there. I think a lot of men fall through the cracks in society in one way or another, and have trouble finding partners, and often it's not their "fault" per se, and I think those are some of the grains of truth here. I don't agree with the "red pill" sort of conclusion, but I definitely think there's something there in terms of what they are experiencing.