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Like any engineer, I know more than a few instant-millionaires. The ones who were capable of being happy before money continue to be capable of being happy. Th
by neilk 3y ago
Like any engineer, I know more than a few instant-millionaires.
The ones who were capable of being happy before money continue to be capable of being happy. They had sources of self-worth outside of money, social connections outside the office or hanging with their startup bros, and interests that are intrinsically satisfying even if they are not profitable.
You don't need all of the above, but you do need at least one. The ones who don't have any of the above will go to dark places.
- mdekkers 3y agoAlmost all of my problems can be immediately solved with large amounts of money. Those that cannot will certainly be made more bearable by the simple fact that I have a lot less to worry about, and that I will have more mental and emotional resources available to deal with them. Money will _absolutely_ buy happiness. Whoever tells you otherwise is fooling you.
- csdvrx 3y agoThe same thing was said by other famous philosophers, such as A. Grande who publicly declared: "whoever said money can't solve your problems, must not have had enough money to solve them". Yet there seem to be many other things playing a role in happiness. Besides the famous ones like love, I can cite Ikegai, Wanderlust, Ubuntu, Hygge, Wabi-Sabi (...), and it may be foolish to concentrate on just one of them.
- sseagull 3y agoMoney doesn't bring happiness, but lack of money can bring hardship and lack of happiness. Money can alleviate hardship and stress, but happiness is more than absence of sadness, hardship, or stress.
- csdvrx 3y ago> Money can alleviate hardship and stress, but happiness is more than absence of sadness, hardship, or stress. Indeed: happiness seems to require a certain degree of introspection to realize other things, such as social status or Ikegai, are needed too - hence the (also) famous corollary "Ain't got enough money to pay me respect; Ain't no budget when I'm on the set; If I like it, then that's what I get, yeah" My favorite philosopher indeed!
- pcthrowaway 3y agoI think there's a difference between being sad/unhappy, and having a problem which causes unhappiness. Other than mental health issues, 99% of the problems that might cause unhappiness can be solved with money (though money not be the only factor). Problem: Your mother requires an expensive medical treatment to prevent her from dying. Solution: $$$ Your mother being dead may cause sadness, but that's not from a problem because there is no solution to someone being dead. That type of sadness is a normal, human emotion. It's entirely different to feel sad because of unchangeable realities than because you don't have enough money to fix the thing that's making you sad. Enough money can buy the health (up to a point) of yourself, your family, your friends, and even your acquaintances. It can give you the breathing room to develop meaningful connections, to go to therapy, to exercise. You might not be happy with money, but it has the potential to solve all the problems that affect you directly, and affect everyone you know directly.
- dukeyukey 3y ago> Like any engineer, I know more than a few instant-millionaires. Cries in Europe :(
- mewpmewp2 3y agoFellow europoor here. Hear, hear, brother.