> Number of interactions IRL is harder and harder to get It is but it is not as hard as one might think. One needs to double down on being respectful. Also, do

> Number of interactions IRL is harder and harder to get It is but it is not as hard as one might think. One needs to double down on being respectful. Also, do note that this is more of a thing in the US than in Europe. It's also a thing in Europe, but the US is simply more extreme. But even in the US women were pretty chill. The biggest thing you need to simultaneously show (alongside attractive traits) is that you're reasonable and respectful. I agree it's hard to get motivated. I've had the good fortune that I worked on this when I was young. So even when I get rejected a lot if I'd be dating right now (2 years ago was the last time), I'd still carry on. I think people in general look at rejection the wrong way. Rejection should be observed ("oh this person doesn't want this, alright"), not interpreted ("I knew it, I suck and am unattractive, duh!").