That's kind of my point. Dating apps are A) how the majority of people meet these days and B) are explicitly geared towards making people filter partners by att

That's kind of my point. Dating apps are A) how the majority of people meet these days and B) are explicitly geared towards making people filter partners by attractiveness above all other qualities. Ergo I think A) incels are partly or mostly a creation of the way swipe based dating apps has changed mate selection behavior and B) efforts by psychologists to emphasize that looks don't matter to women as much as incels think they do based upon surveys are badly missing the point.