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People have a tendency to irrationally hate what they don’t understand. Modern society as scripted by Disney teaches men all the wrong moves to make with women.

• kiba 3y ago
  I don't know what Disney scripted. Throw out the dating app and meet people in the real. It doesn't matter if they're dating prospects or not. Rinse, repeat. It's silly to expanding your potential dating option to million of complete strangers. Start building a network of maybe 300-400 individuals, some of which are potential partners. Some will simply be friends, teammates, etc. Remember, dating is not an interview or a resume. You are not showing off how good you are with a bunch of impersonal details online like what school you went to, your favorites hobbies etc. Nobody cares about that. Meet people and see how they vibes with you.
  • rob74 3y ago
    > meet people in the real This! In my experience, doing this helps against other phobias (xenophobia, homophobia etc.) as well...
    • water9 3y ago
      do you really think it’s as simple as this? It’s hard to meet people that aren’t attracted to you. If you give your average Incel, this type of advice, send them off to a bar and tell them to go make friends with a girl they’re attracted to, you’re setting them up for a world of Hurt because that is an incredibly naïve advice to give
      • rob74 3y ago
        I was referring more generally to meeting other people (not only online and not only other incels), without the intention of finding a partner - sort of learning to swim first before jumping in at the deep end.
  • water9 3y ago
    It means that Disney depicts men is having to be this heroic emotional type, which is not what women are looking for. They’re looking for stoic types. You clearly have never heard the phrase quantity drives quality. You can’t be selective if nobody wants you, so casting a wider net gets you more fish. That’s true in anything whether it would be business, dating, etc. I don’t know why this is mind blowing to you.