Don't compare yourself to others on a single variable, like hobby time, when you'll never know what all the other variables look like. They may spend less time

Don't compare yourself to others on a single variable, like hobby time, when you'll never know what all the other variables look like. They may spend less time with kids, put more of the parenting on partners/childcare, have more money, work less, do fewer chores, etc. I personally don't know any dads with kids under 5 that have time for hobbies.