I am the poster that posted this a bunch of times. I kept getting a (I do not remember now exactly) "bad gateway" message when submitting the post. I was assumi

I am the poster that posted this a bunch of times. I kept getting a (I do not remember now exactly) "bad gateway" message when submitting the post. I was assuming it was not getting through. When I noticed I was able to delete one of the extra posts but not the others. I am no sure what exactly I was doing wrong (Except I should check better if the post got through). Edit: One typo above. Also, this question is less about bare survival and more about comfort for someone a little less able to cope. A lot of good and interesting suggestion. Thank you everyone.