I did not say “none of them are victims”. I explicitly do not condone bullying. Being rejected does not make them victims. Maybe the reference to teaching my ch

I did not say “none of them are victims”. I explicitly do not condone bullying. Being rejected does not make them victims. Maybe the reference to teaching my child not to make themselves a target implied I was victim blaming and that was not my intent. My son has a few idiosyncrasies that makes him the awesome individual he is, sometimes he can be very obstinate and does not think about the person he’s speaking to. I have to remind him that some of his school mates weren’t raised like he was and if he speaks to them that way they may respond violently.