1. Take a look around you. If there are no women in the room, you're in the wrong room. Location matters. 2. Take a look around you. Feel the vibe. If you are

1. Take a look around you. If there are no women in the room, you're in the wrong room. Location matters. 2. Take a look around you. Feel the vibe. If you are not vibing with the people in the room, you're in the wrong room. How you come across to others matters. You don't want to be the loser in the room. If you do 1. and 2. then it's just a matter of trying and failing until someone sticks around. 3. As a man you will always have to lead. That's expected of men. You have to ask her out. You have to advance the relationship forward. 4. Once you get a girl interested, threat her well, but don't put her on a pedestal. She wants to look up to you, not the other way round. ...things I wish I realized a long time ago