I think this is very close to the debate on altruism. I’ve met far too many people who confuse “being kind to someone” and “being a kind person”. Are you really

I think this is very close to the debate on altruism. I’ve met far too many people who confuse “being kind to someone” and “being a kind person”. Are you really a “kind person” if you’re kind to someone only because of what you expect or want from them? Spend a bit of time with someone and you learn whether they’re sweet or sickly sweet….