There are no secrets, learning to interact with others is a skill like any other. Some people have more innate talent, some people get better with time, and som

There are no secrets, learning to interact with others is a skill like any other. Some people have more innate talent, some people get better with time, and some people have disabilities that make interacting with others difficult. Self victimization and blaming of others for a lack of skill in an area of life is problematic. Most incels have a problem with themselves that they begin to externalize in a toxic way. The internet has just provided an easy avenue for groupthink and sharing that toxicity. “Slut shaming” shamed people who were often comfortable with their lifestyle and choices, usually by people who were similarly toxic and uncomfortable with their own bodies and/or sexuality.