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And it’s not even about women. This just applies to anyone looking for a romantic partner. Who doesn’t want all of those traits? They’re the whole package. Peo
by sergiomattei 3y ago
And it’s not even about women. This just applies to anyone looking for a romantic partner.
Who doesn’t want all of those traits? They’re the whole package. People have standards, and it seems so-called incels aren’t comfortable with that.
- Jensson 3y agoWomen who aren't reliable have no problems getting guys, so no it isn't the same for both sides. > Who doesn’t want all of those traits? Sure, but we are talking about preferences, men prioritizes other traits even though they of course would like to have the perfect woman.
- sergiomattei 3y agoIn my anecdotal experience, I chalk it down to inexperience. After a couple of unsuccessful committed relationships, people get their standards in place. It’s hard to imagine healthy adults want to date unreliable individuals romantically. I don’t think it’s a gendered issue.
- Jensson 3y agoThe reason doesn't matter, the end result is that unreliable women doesn't have issues getting guys as long as they are nice and not obese. Ditzy women is a popular trope for a reason.
- lazide 3y agoIncels are often that way because they don’t actually have standards/know how to mind their boundaries with women, know they’ll get fucked over because of it (and likely already were by one close to them - Mom) and are afraid to let anyone close enough to find that out. So sabotage themselves constantly and project that internalized anger into others.