Click on the style you want and then look for the text to the bottom left of the image that looks like this: Victorian era cabinet card --v 6 Upload a picture

Click on the style you want and then look for the text to the bottom left of the image that looks like this: Victorian era cabinet card --v 6 Upload a picture of your wife to Discord (to the Midjourney bot.) Copy its URL and paste it, along with the style words above. I'm not sure what InvokeAI is, but I imagine the style terms are basically equivalent.