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I am so done with "awful but lots of money." I won't even do boring but lots of money any more. I recently took a shocking pay cut to get "not awful and very f

I am so done with "awful but lots of money." I won't even do boring but lots of money any more. I recently took a shocking pay cut to get "not awful and very fun." Being bored was killing me. Draining your soul for money is not wise. Your mind takes on a personality you can't relate to and sinks to an imperceptible malaise. It's a form of torture. Leaving that to discover purpose again is an unforgettable relief. I feel young again and I'm flooded daily with feelings of optimism, something I thought was just lost to youth. Like being released from prison.

throwaway2037 3y ago
> I am so done with "awful but lots of money." I won't even do boring but lots of money any more. This is rich thinking. Most people that I met from developing countries who grew up poor would sell their soul for shitty unfulfilling work that pays huge salary / bonus / stock. I cannot blame them; I would do the same in their situation. I don't pass (too much) judgement on where and why people work. Mostly, it is a luxury to decide when / where / how you work, including for less than the maximum that you can be paid. Personally, my biggest professional problem is that I get bored on a project after two years. It is incredibly rare in my career to stay more than four years on the same project. Yet, time and time again, my managers are surprised when I resign for a new role.
Sohcahtoa82 3y ago
> I am so done with "awful but lots of money." I won't even do boring but lots of money any more. > I recently took a shocking pay cut to get "not awful and very fun." Curious what your financial situation looked like between these two stages. It's easy to be willing to take a major pay cut to work on a fun project when you've already got 6 figures stashed in savings and your house and car are paid off.
- throwaway2037 3y ago
  > 6 figures stashed in savings I wish people would not use that term "x figures". It is too vague. Are we talking about 100K USD or 900K USD? There is a huge difference, yet both are "6 figures".

throwaway2037 3y ago

> I am so done with "awful but lots of money." I won't even do boring but lots of money any more. This is rich thinking. Most people that I met from developing countries who grew up poor would sell their soul for shitty unfulfilling work that pays huge salary / bonus / stock. I cannot blame them; I would do the same in their situation. I don't pass (too much) judgement on where and why people work. Mostly, it is a luxury to decide when / where / how you work, including for less than the maximum that you can be paid. Personally, my biggest professional problem is that I get bored on a project after two years. It is incredibly rare in my career to stay more than four years on the same project. Yet, time and time again, my managers are surprised when I resign for a new role.

Sohcahtoa82 3y ago

> I am so done with "awful but lots of money." I won't even do boring but lots of money any more. > I recently took a shocking pay cut to get "not awful and very fun." Curious what your financial situation looked like between these two stages. It's easy to be willing to take a major pay cut to work on a fun project when you've already got 6 figures stashed in savings and your house and car are paid off.

throwaway2037 3y ago
> 6 figures stashed in savings I wish people would not use that term "x figures". It is too vague. Are we talking about 100K USD or 900K USD? There is a huge difference, yet both are "6 figures".