"I think you are very seriously downplaying the extra effort family care takers actually are making." You don't seem to realize that I am one, and do way more

"I think you are very seriously downplaying the extra effort family care takers actually are making." You don't seem to realize that I am one, and do way more than 50%. If anything, it would be to my benefit to talk it up, but I still think that's not the way it should work.