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> This is the kind of worldview that comes from years of navel-gazing in a therapist's office. "Why do I beat my kids? ...Because my father beat me! Now that I
by truculent 3y ago
> This is the kind of worldview that comes from years of navel-gazing in a therapist's office. "Why do I beat my kids? ...Because my father beat me! Now that I understand why I do it, I can stop beating my kids..." Or, you could just stop beating your kids.
Which of these approaches is more likely to result in someone changing their behaviour? Is there any evidence that advice to “just stop X” is as or more effective than causally aligned methods?
What an unusual attitude for an engineer to have. I suppose you fix bugs by “just not writing bugs in the first place”, too.
- meiraleal 3y ago> s there any evidence that advice to “just stop X” is as or more effective than causally aligned methods? There is clear evidence that taking longer to stop beating your kids is more harmful to them so less effective than just stop beating them.
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- truculent 3y ago… which is irrelevant if advice to “just stop” has no effect