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Being a net taker or net giver still means you take and give, you just do more of one than the other. I don’t see why this means they’d refuse to assist. People
by deadbabe 3y ago
Being a net taker or net giver still means you take and give, you just do more of one than the other. I don’t see why this means they’d refuse to assist. People aren’t pure takers and givers.
- steve_adams_86 3y agoI’d argue the vast majority of people would like to be givers, but they lack the ability, security, and situational awareness in order to follow through on it. Most people in my life seem to jump at the opportunity to help if I make my needs clear. I don’t need to ask at all, it’s just a matter of if I present a problem or situation that they know and can solve. I’m much the same way. Perhaps it’s because of who I’ve surrounded myself with, but I find strangers tend to lean this way as well. People want to help. They just need to know how and be able to. Crossing that gap is usually the hard part.
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