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Financial reasons or not, it is an entirely valid choice to decline someone's request for a drink.
by redserk 3y ago
Financial reasons or not, it is an entirely valid choice to decline someone's request for a drink.
- fragmede 3y agoIt's a valid choice, but so is theirs to not continue to interact with you.
- AnimalMuppet 3y agoRight, but as soperj said, the people you miss out on are the people who will dump you because you won't spend money on them. Missing out on them is likely to be a net win.
- fhdkweig 3y agoThat's the difference between a life-long friendship and a business transaction.
- Levitz 3y agoIt's still soul crushing. It's internalized in a whole different way. When you have two, you have two, when you have one, you have none, what is it? Options. When you don't have a dime you don't choose not to spend money, your brain never gets there, it's just a "no" and the "no" is because you are poor.
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- redserk 3y agoI’m very much aware. I grew up in a poor family and was lucky to break out of the cycle in my 20s. That said, a club typically has people wanting free drinks and people not wanting to reciprocate. This environment is setting oneself up to be taken advantage of.