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Someone who pesters waitresses to ensure the procreation of the human race is an argument against why that should occur.
by bugglebeetle 3y ago
Someone who pesters waitresses to ensure the procreation of the human race is an argument against why that should occur.
- ozfive 3y agoAs a former male server I experienced women hitting on me in ways that I thought only men did and it didn't feel great at all. I'm sure there will be guys out there saying that's a good problem to have, but it really isn't. Especially if you have a wife already.
- bugglebeetle 3y agoYes, I shouldn’t have gendered it. Pestering anyone in a service role in this way is beyond obnoxious behavior, to put it politely.
- ozfive 3y agoTo describe it succinctly I and many others are a captive audience in these agreements to labor/income. I'm not necessarily attracted to you just because you are in my vicinity.
- alexey-salmin 3y agoWell you can argue against procreation of human race if you want but long-term this only means no procreation of your culture and not of the human race as a whole. Other cultures, more eager to spread will take it's place eventually.
- bugglebeetle 3y agoI didn’t argue against it in general, just for the case of people who pester service staff in pursuit of sexual gratification. I don’t think that’s a cultural issue, so much as one of individual boorishness.
- alexey-salmin 3y agoSeeing "boorishness" and "pursuit of sexual gratification" as inherently bad things is indeed a cultural phenomenon. There are cultures that explicitly reward one or both of these.
- bugglebeetle 3y agoThe problem is the combination of the two, although the former is discouraged most everywhere. Being a pest is not a matter of culture, but an individual choice.