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Imagine being an actual woman and having to deal with this bullshit all the fucking time. I have no idea how the hell they do it. Must be low-level torture.

wolverine876 3y ago
Imagine if women behaved this way toward men. Before making the obvious snarky remarks, step back and think about how unpleasant that would be, as well as distracting from doing actual work, degrading (they aren't taking you seriously as a professional, just as a f-k), etc.
- kylebenzle 3y ago
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  - DANmode 3y ago
    I'll leave the rest of your comment to someone(s) else, but...Bumble failed? Citation?
    - kylebenzle 3y ago
      [dead]
    - DANmode 3y ago
      Kyle, your blog link on your homepage is 404. Also, please do better with your comments in the future. You didn't even follow your smarmy link to see if something appropriate was shown in the results =[
- ozfive 3y ago
  I'm sorry, what world do you live in? As a server, women were extremely crass and inappropriate with me all of the time and it wasn't nice at all for me. I am also not the type to be that kind of guy so it was very jarring for me to experience.
  - kylebenzle 3y ago
    I think most guys on this site don't really spend much time in the real world.
    - randomdata 3y ago
      Well, who could stand to with all those people out there constantly asking you for things?
      - ozfive 3y ago
        San Francisco, Seattle, New York, Miami, Austin. Pick one I live there. Being in these environments really makes you wonder what sort of intellectual and ultimately evolutionary advancements have we made by constantly just volleying a ball over a net for so long with decisions that are made without our reach, oversight and generally care.
kylebenzle 3y ago
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- bugglebeetle 3y ago
  Someone who pesters waitresses to ensure the procreation of the human race is an argument against why that should occur.
  - ozfive 3y ago
    As a former male server I experienced women hitting on me in ways that I thought only men did and it didn't feel great at all. I'm sure there will be guys out there saying that's a good problem to have, but it really isn't. Especially if you have a wife already.
    - bugglebeetle 3y ago
      Yes, I shouldn’t have gendered it. Pestering anyone in a service role in this way is beyond obnoxious behavior, to put it politely.
      - ozfive 3y ago
        To describe it succinctly I and many others are a captive audience in these agreements to labor/income. I'm not necessarily attracted to you just because you are in my vicinity.
  - alexey-salmin 3y ago
    Well you can argue against procreation of human race if you want but long-term this only means no procreation of your culture and not of the human race as a whole. Other cultures, more eager to spread will take it's place eventually.
    - bugglebeetle 3y ago
      I didn’t argue against it in general, just for the case of people who pester service staff in pursuit of sexual gratification. I don’t think that’s a cultural issue, so much as one of individual boorishness.

wolverine876 3y ago

Imagine if women behaved this way toward men. Before making the obvious snarky remarks, step back and think about how unpleasant that would be, as well as distracting from doing actual work, degrading (they aren't taking you seriously as a professional, just as a f-k), etc.

kylebenzle 3y ago
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- DANmode 3y ago
  I'll leave the rest of your comment to someone(s) else, but...Bumble failed? Citation?
  - kylebenzle 3y ago
    [dead]
  - DANmode 3y ago
    Kyle, your blog link on your homepage is 404. Also, please do better with your comments in the future. You didn't even follow your smarmy link to see if something appropriate was shown in the results =[
ozfive 3y ago
I'm sorry, what world do you live in? As a server, women were extremely crass and inappropriate with me all of the time and it wasn't nice at all for me. I am also not the type to be that kind of guy so it was very jarring for me to experience.
- kylebenzle 3y ago
  I think most guys on this site don't really spend much time in the real world.
  - randomdata 3y ago
    Well, who could stand to with all those people out there constantly asking you for things?
    - ozfive 3y ago
      San Francisco, Seattle, New York, Miami, Austin. Pick one I live there. Being in these environments really makes you wonder what sort of intellectual and ultimately evolutionary advancements have we made by constantly just volleying a ball over a net for so long with decisions that are made without our reach, oversight and generally care.

kylebenzle 3y ago

bugglebeetle 3y ago
Someone who pesters waitresses to ensure the procreation of the human race is an argument against why that should occur.
- ozfive 3y ago
  As a former male server I experienced women hitting on me in ways that I thought only men did and it didn't feel great at all. I'm sure there will be guys out there saying that's a good problem to have, but it really isn't. Especially if you have a wife already.
  - bugglebeetle 3y ago
    Yes, I shouldn’t have gendered it. Pestering anyone in a service role in this way is beyond obnoxious behavior, to put it politely.
    - ozfive 3y ago
      To describe it succinctly I and many others are a captive audience in these agreements to labor/income. I'm not necessarily attracted to you just because you are in my vicinity.
- alexey-salmin 3y ago
  Well you can argue against procreation of human race if you want but long-term this only means no procreation of your culture and not of the human race as a whole. Other cultures, more eager to spread will take it's place eventually.
  - bugglebeetle 3y ago
    I didn’t argue against it in general, just for the case of people who pester service staff in pursuit of sexual gratification. I don’t think that’s a cultural issue, so much as one of individual boorishness.