Find a single girl, and all you get is someone nobody else wants. The above is flamingly, almost disgustingly, false, and I said it only to illustrate a sweepi

Find a single girl, and all you get is someone nobody else wants. The above is flamingly, almost disgustingly, false, and I said it only to illustrate a sweeping stereotype. What you say is generally correct, but I wouldn't apply it in all cases. Anyway, by "steal", I don't mean that you should actively damage the relationship. That's evil and also quite pathetic. I mean that you become friends with the girl and wait for the relationship to find its end, which it will if the girl likes you better than her current boyfriend-- and while there are very, very few compelling women who are available and unattached, there are a hell of a lot of them dating loser men. I generally agree with you in principle. And it's not a good thing that the vast majority of attractive women are unavailable. It's much better if you can find a shy, quirky girl who happens, against all odds, to be single and available, but while this is the gold standard, it's incredibly uncommon.