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This takes me back. Way back in like 2004-2006 or so I was working a computer repair desk at a big retailer and did a ton of side business. The side business

This takes me back. Way back in like 2004-2006 or so I was working a computer repair desk at a big retailer and did a ton of side business. The side business honestly paid more than my job did. I would travel around NYC fixing things for mostly clueless people. People attempting to screw me on payment was common. The frequent move was to offer drugs or sex in lieu of payment after the work was done. The only sane response to this though was to tell them to just pay what they could afford and then get out of there as fast as possible. I had a few rich and famous clients. It was a fun time, but I got tired of taking long, extended train rides after a full day of work only to do more work and have a long train ride home.

wkat4242 3y ago
I did that too, worked for a computer shop and often got hired by clients. Never got offered sex on lieu of payment unfortunately, I would have taken it :) Nor drugs but I don't do those.
- KennyBlanken 3y ago
  It's almost never the attractive, talented, or regularly-tested-for-STIs-and-STI-free ones that offer the sex...
  - wkat4242 3y ago
    Understood but I always use protection anyway. And when I did this kind of work I was a shy horny teenager so I wouldn't have cared about looks :P
  - freedomben 3y ago
    Indeed. A friend of mine did work in a small town hard-hit by the changing economy, and multiple times had offers of sex (more commonly oral sex) in lieu of payment (or partial payment). If you're not picky then some of these people have a lot of experience and are good at what they do. But if toothless/meth-toothed people, usually not recently showered, and sometimes with a fair amount of extra weight is something that will be a problem for you, then it's not going to be as appealing as it initially sounds. On the (maybe) plus side they won't make you wear a condom. On the negative side, they didn't make anybody else either... Much better (IMHO) to put in the time and effort to cultivate a loving long-term relationship with a good partner.
    - wkat4242 3y ago
      Uhm if you're fixing PCs as I did you don't end up working for meth-toothed people :P Maybe not the most attractive people no, but regular middle-class people at the very least. Especially when you were fixing macs which were even more premium priced here in Europe back then than they are now. I fixed all sorts of stuff but I would not have marginalised clients. I guess it's also why I didn't get such offers :P I didn't charge a lot so people could pay my fees easily. In fact I think sensitivity to paying money (or receiving financial incentives) is more of a US thing. Only last month I spoke to a fairly rich American guy because a friend asked me about a problem he was having with his WiFi. I gave him some advice and he offered me money to come to his place and sort it out myself. I said no, because I already have a day job (enterprise architect) and I just don't want the responsibility. Once I start taking money it comes with expectations to show up if something goes wrong. So I help friends for free but that's it (and he was only a friend of a friend). I don't mind giving some advice but actually going there and taking care of his stuff is a bridge too far. I have zero entrepreneurial spirit anyway, I'm a typical "salaried employee" and happy with that. The guy was a bit offended, he said that in the US everyone would be eager to do some work for money on the side and here he's always having issues getting IT help. His way of finding such help is apparently talking to friends and offering them money then. It surprised me a bit. I don't think many people here would be too eager to do that.
      - jamiek88 3y ago
        > he said that in the US everyone would be eager to do some work for money on the side and here he's always having issues getting IT help Well that’s just bollocks. Perhaps young teenagers are typically okay with earning a bit or forced by their parents to help but it certainly is not the cultural norm that grown ass salaried professionals jump at the chance to earn $50 sorting their neighbors WiFi out. He just thought he’d found another sucker and was annoyed when you turned out to have a backbone, because you are absolutely right this guy would become what is often called in the trades a ‘sinsya’. ‘Sinsya’ fixed my printer my WiFi doesn’t work as well. Did you break it? ‘Sinsya’ fixed my WiFi my washing machine doesn’t do the hot cycle properly. You were messing with the ‘wires’ weren’t you? Etc etc fucking etc. If he called a professional company to help he’d have no issues ‘here’ but he’d also have to pay the going rate. What he means is back home he has a network large enough to exploit and doesn’t have to worry about learning how to do it or pay a professional.

wkat4242 3y ago

I did that too, worked for a computer shop and often got hired by clients. Never got offered sex on lieu of payment unfortunately, I would have taken it :) Nor drugs but I don't do those.

KennyBlanken 3y ago
It's almost never the attractive, talented, or regularly-tested-for-STIs-and-STI-free ones that offer the sex...
- wkat4242 3y ago
  Understood but I always use protection anyway. And when I did this kind of work I was a shy horny teenager so I wouldn't have cared about looks :P
- freedomben 3y ago
  Indeed. A friend of mine did work in a small town hard-hit by the changing economy, and multiple times had offers of sex (more commonly oral sex) in lieu of payment (or partial payment). If you're not picky then some of these people have a lot of experience and are good at what they do. But if toothless/meth-toothed people, usually not recently showered, and sometimes with a fair amount of extra weight is something that will be a problem for you, then it's not going to be as appealing as it initially sounds. On the (maybe) plus side they won't make you wear a condom. On the negative side, they didn't make anybody else either... Much better (IMHO) to put in the time and effort to cultivate a loving long-term relationship with a good partner.
  - wkat4242 3y ago
    Uhm if you're fixing PCs as I did you don't end up working for meth-toothed people :P Maybe not the most attractive people no, but regular middle-class people at the very least. Especially when you were fixing macs which were even more premium priced here in Europe back then than they are now. I fixed all sorts of stuff but I would not have marginalised clients. I guess it's also why I didn't get such offers :P I didn't charge a lot so people could pay my fees easily. In fact I think sensitivity to paying money (or receiving financial incentives) is more of a US thing. Only last month I spoke to a fairly rich American guy because a friend asked me about a problem he was having with his WiFi. I gave him some advice and he offered me money to come to his place and sort it out myself. I said no, because I already have a day job (enterprise architect) and I just don't want the responsibility. Once I start taking money it comes with expectations to show up if something goes wrong. So I help friends for free but that's it (and he was only a friend of a friend). I don't mind giving some advice but actually going there and taking care of his stuff is a bridge too far. I have zero entrepreneurial spirit anyway, I'm a typical "salaried employee" and happy with that. The guy was a bit offended, he said that in the US everyone would be eager to do some work for money on the side and here he's always having issues getting IT help. His way of finding such help is apparently talking to friends and offering them money then. It surprised me a bit. I don't think many people here would be too eager to do that.
    - jamiek88 3y ago
      > he said that in the US everyone would be eager to do some work for money on the side and here he's always having issues getting IT help Well that’s just bollocks. Perhaps young teenagers are typically okay with earning a bit or forced by their parents to help but it certainly is not the cultural norm that grown ass salaried professionals jump at the chance to earn $50 sorting their neighbors WiFi out. He just thought he’d found another sucker and was annoyed when you turned out to have a backbone, because you are absolutely right this guy would become what is often called in the trades a ‘sinsya’. ‘Sinsya’ fixed my printer my WiFi doesn’t work as well. Did you break it? ‘Sinsya’ fixed my WiFi my washing machine doesn’t do the hot cycle properly. You were messing with the ‘wires’ weren’t you? Etc etc fucking etc. If he called a professional company to help he’d have no issues ‘here’ but he’d also have to pay the going rate. What he means is back home he has a network large enough to exploit and doesn’t have to worry about learning how to do it or pay a professional.