I'm amazed that you've written this post (presumably in good faith) and not provided a single concrete example. The replies disagree with your assertions and a

I'm amazed that you've written this post (presumably in good faith) and not provided a single concrete example. The replies disagree with your assertions and are providing concrete examples. All of the replies are civil. One might call it civil discourse. However, I suspect from the priming of your last line that you will not view it that way, and instead view it as "the average HN user" being intolerant of your ideas. Instead, may I suggest engaging with the replies?