Very interesting, thank you! I didn't think it was stupid, I had genuine trouble understanding how could an extra feature be hated - it didn't make sense: I th

Very interesting, thank you! I didn't think it was stupid, I had genuine trouble understanding how could an extra feature be hated - it didn't make sense: I thought it was maybe not the feature itself, but either the default setting, or the fact that it was a setting that could be tweaked. But when something doesn't make sense to me, I've found it often means I've overlooked or missed something that may be evident to others (sometimes I even write: "what have I overlooked?") Here, I missed that it would be interpreted to mean "poison under veneer". I'd like to improve, as in "not being perceived as aggressive", so I appreciate your feedback!