>But instead of spending the money on a house big enough to host those dinner parties, you could host them at a fancy restaurant, with better food and the abili

>But instead of spending the money on a house big enough to host those dinner parties, you could host them at a fancy restaurant, with better food and the ability to spend the entire evening with the guests instead of in the kitchen. Maybe we can skip it all and send them a gift card from Uber Eats? If you think eating at a fancy restaurant is a substitute for being surround by family while you cook a huge dinner in a large, cozy home then I feel bad for you. >I find life to be more comfortable when treating edge cases like edge cases, and finding an appropriate solution. I bet if we looked at your life, "car" and "house" are compromises you are willing to make, "edge cases", but there are other things in there that you are not. Can I ask why you are so concerned about policing how other people want to spend their time and money?