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Honestly this is kind of sad to me. One of my greatest joys is the frequent gatherings of our friend groups... Sometimes even tea with "fancy china."

• lukas099 3y ago
  It's not that I didn't have frequent gatherings, it's that they were at different places and involved things other than candlelight dinners.
  • strix_varius 3y ago
    The limitations of "I only hang out with friends in businesses" is still sad to me. It means: No offering your spare bedroom when someone drinks too much, no communal potlucks, no gatherings when businesses are closed... Where you invest your resources speaks volumes about your priorities in life.
    • TaylorAlexander 3y ago
      My friends have potlucks at at public parks/beaches. For me I often gather at the local hackerspace which is a collective that I’m a member of. I’m joining another collective that’s a tiny farm and they have potlucks. Theres “bike party” where a bunch of rowdy people meet in the streets, ride bikes for 5 miles or so with music blaring out of special speaker filled bike trailers and we take over both lanes of traffic until we ride to a selected location to throw a dance party. And I don’t have a spare bedroom. Also most of my friend group doesn’t drink.