> "oh he didn't write a pronoun at all! he's not a culture fit!" I find this particularly sad because of how harmful it is to trans people, especially trans pe

> "oh he didn't write a pronoun at all! he's not a culture fit!" I find this particularly sad because of how harmful it is to trans people, especially trans people who are not "out". Forcing such people to specify a pronoun is forcing them to choose between "out yourself to everyone" and "disavow your own identity", and feels just awful. Not to mention people in earlier stages of understanding their own gender, who may feel a pointed distaste for the pronouns that they've always used without quite understanding why. (To clarify tone, I'm not criticizing your comment.)