Why do you say it's commodified though ? We have a lot of fun, we cannot get away from each other a minute and we deeply connect. We re never bored, we never fi

Why do you say it's commodified though ? We have a lot of fun, we cannot get away from each other a minute and we deeply connect. We re never bored, we never fight long. I've had sex with her every day for 8 months, yes, but does that make it a commodity ? I would assume it would be if I was trading it or changing partners all the time ? The key to make sex good is to make it somehow special each time rather than a boring obligation: isnt that the opposite of commodification? Arent bored couples fucking every 2 sundays able to trade one memory for the other as if there was no difference, the definition of a commodity ? I dont think it's that unhealthy and we're very special to each other and I love my girlfriend immensely. Still we fuck a lot, and I would never go back to someone not compatible with me, who cannot get excited, and cannot diversify bed activities (not their fault, just not compatible)... You should try to make your partner come often, it's really more fun than pretending sex has to be rare and holy ! Bah you'll see when you find someone so special you just cant not desire them. Money, exoticism, vibrators and brutal honesty are the key to find it in my limited experience.