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> Maybe, but I seriously doubt it has an impact on what men actually do. You're right not all men have changed. It changed what the "top" men do to be accepted
by sublinear 3y ago
> Maybe, but I seriously doubt it has an impact on what men actually do.
You're right not all men have changed. It changed what the "top" men do to be accepted by women. Porn had a huge impact on women.
> Men aren't going "That woman is a 6; no way I'm sleeping with her"
Women who are a 6+ now know
that most men would sleep with them. That doesn't resolve their loneliness nor feed their ambitions or help them grow. Really at the end of the day they just want a halfway good reason for the sex beyond basic attraction. Relationship depends on how good that reason was and whether it led to a deeper bond. Long term relationship depends on whether the situation is sustainable.
- lelanthran 3y ago> Women who are a 6+ now know that most men would sleep with them. Women who are a solid 6 think that they are a solid 8 (assuming an even distribution in attractiveness from 1 - 10). This is because, as you said, they know (not suspect) that most men would sleep with them, so in their mind, if 80% of men find them good enough to sleep with, then they're an 8/10. Even women in the 4 and below category are constantly having to decline male propositions, hence they overrate their desirability, not realising that 8/10 horny males would rather have sex with a women who's a 3 or a 2 than no sex at all.