Honest answer: moderation. If you think someone is a nutso, ban them. And people who are like them won't find many friends there anymore. Having an airtight CoC

Honest answer: moderation. If you think someone is a nutso, ban them. And people who are like them won't find many friends there anymore. Having an airtight CoC is important for big networks that need transparency but if its your personal space you don't need to worry too much And yea, the allow list method is pretty good depending on the vibe. I feel a lot more comfortable in my 10 person discord of people I know personally. If that's the energy youre going for it totally works