> I don't care about politeness I care about kindness. Your original comment is not kind either, my friend. Genuinely useful feedback is the best, for sure. B

> I don't care about politeness I care about kindness. Your original comment is not kind either, my friend. Genuinely useful feedback is the best, for sure. But hearing a generic "no" still makes it easier to take a deep breath and move on as soon as they decide against you rather than weeks later when you've decided it's appropriate to give up hope.