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I would reason that a relationship that needs to be enforced isn't "secure." What does "secure in their relationship" mean to you?
by drekipus 3y ago
I would reason that a relationship that needs to be enforced isn't "secure."
What does "secure in their relationship" mean to you?
- ben_w 3y agoThat you have no fear of losing it. Prisoners are secure. They are also, to use the word you used earlier, bored. Don't mistake "secure" for "fun". It is an independent axis of consideration. Lots of people value security over fun, including when it comes to sexuality. Not everyone, but lots of people. And going further up this thread back to what Quinzel wrote: > If I felt secure in a relationship, having a partner that wants to experiment with others/date others wouldn’t really bother me. Alice can feel secure about Bob always being there for Alice when Alice needs it, while also being comfortable with the idea that Bob sometimes boinks Chris, and this can be either true or false, this is independent of if Alice wants to boink Dee.