> I don't think it's possible to divorce possessiveness from sex. I don't get jealous: and I've definitely been in situations which I would judge that many men

> I don't think it's possible to divorce possessiveness from sex. I don't get jealous: and I've definitely been in situations which I would judge that many men would get jealous. Maybe I'm on the spectrum or something. As a second example, I presume the majority of Johns that pay for sex don't get jealous about the sex worker having multiple partners. > It's hard for me to see how polyamory won't be a disaster for children I reckon the western nuclear family (mum, dad and kids) is unhealthy. I believe kids do better if they have more than two adults in their lives. Certainly added difficulties: but extended families have been managing similar issues for centuries.