My car does this and more, so perhaps I chose my words unwisely. (I live in a van I have pretty much full remote control of save actual driving, I'm out right n

My car does this and more, so perhaps I chose my words unwisely. (I live in a van I have pretty much full remote control of save actual driving, I'm out right now and I just turned on my espresso machine so it's preheated when I get home). I don't mind connectivity, I mind having to trust other idiots, I'm happy to trust this idiot. I want to be able to approve every change. It's MY car. I want to have the final say about what happens with the things I own. I want to be able to rely on them.