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> In fact the lengths women went to intrigued me, partially because it was a sort of subjugation for my pleasure. They don't do it for your pleasure. They do i
by cousin_it 3y ago
> In fact the lengths women went to intrigued me, partially because it was a sort of subjugation for my pleasure.
They don't do it for your pleasure. They do it to get something they want - attract someone cool. Men also do lots of things for that reason.
- fnordpiglet 3y agoSorry, how does attracting someone cool not mean doing it for the pleasure of the someone cool? That seems like exactly the reason they’re doing it. The attraction isn’t like magnetism, it’s not a physical force. It’s by creating pleasure in the opposite sex, creating an image that’s pleasing to them. So, yes, they in fact do do it for my pleasure. And I’m not saying that’s necessarily a wrong thing. I do things to attract people as well. They also do it for their own - I’m not saying women don’t want to be more beautiful only for men’s pleasure. But my point is, what a strange structure we have that half of the humans on earth feel profoundly and unshakably uncomfortable by being simply their selves without modifications? Like, literally can’t be seen in public without applying substances to their face to change how they look?
- cousin_it 3y ago> Sorry, how does attracting someone cool not mean doing it for the pleasure of the someone cool? The same way you might wish to get hired by a highly paying company, but not have any particular desire for that company to become richer. These two things are just not connected much.
- hef19898 3y agoDid it ever occur to both, you and OP, that women do that for themselves? Just wondering.
- watwut 3y agoThat theory is tested when women are alone. While some women do use make up and everything, most women at home just don't care.
- hef19898 3y agoJust like I accept bad hair day at home. So, you do everything you do in presence of others to impress someone else?
- watwut 3y agoIf you accept bad hair at home and not in public, pretty clearly it is not that you care about hair for yourself. You clearly do it for other people and their perception of you.
- hef19898 3y agoAh, of course! Thank you for enlightening me! And there I was, thinking I am not caring about appearance just because I woory whom of the people I meet is interested in me! /s
- fnordpiglet 3y ago“”” They also do it for their own - I’m not saying women don’t want to be more beautiful only for men’s pleasure. “””