A caveat to this would be that "caring for the autistic and/or disabled" is generally not viewed as "high status" in human society. If you have a disabled chil

A caveat to this would be that "caring for the autistic and/or disabled" is generally not viewed as "high status" in human society. If you have a disabled child, a lot of the time, the other children don't wanna hang out. If you're a disabled young adult, nobody probably wants to date you (or at least a very limited subset). You're already below 7-8 on hot or not for most. If you're a disabled adult, a lot of time, people don't "really" wanna deal with your needs (work/home/businesses) If you're a disabled elderly, you're probably in a home. Plus, a lot of societies for (pretty much since humans existed) have shunned the disabled as untouchables / failures / curses / diseased / bad-genetics / unlucky And in human society, "high status" often correlates with "expensive" or "high wealth". Also "pretty" or "desirable".