> surrounded by 19 year old girls? Sure, if those are your priorities. All great, until you grow up, get married, have children, reach your intellectual prime

> surrounded by 19 year old girls? Sure, if those are your priorities. All great, until you grow up, get married, have children, reach your intellectual prime and realise that you should probably contribute something real to the world. That's when the cloisters of "academia" start looking like prison bars. You realise you're surrounded by institutionalised infantilism, involuted bureaucracy, and frighteningly insecure people. Being a "professor" relishing power over 19 yo girls isn't what a mature life is about. But hey, it's not just academia. I know many from the military and other services who hit their mid 30s and quit, not through lack of career advancement, or money, or through physical fatigue, but because they were surrounded by man-childs and stuck in a classist, sexist, self-serving culture akin to a boys boarding school. Institutions profoundly arrest self-development and I think they attract people who are in a sense "stuck in life" but lack the courage to assert their real, full potential. Anyway, we keep selling "university" as some Hogwarts themed funfair ride to young people who can't afford it. That's why I got out. It's so awfully unethical. I'd rather build pedagogical and research relations with grown-ups who I can treat as equals and who have some skin in the game.