Thanks for writing this. The second part makes me feel a bit better about my own life - my experiences are the same as yours. Having children exposes flaws in y

Thanks for writing this. The second part makes me feel a bit better about my own life - my experiences are the same as yours. Having children exposes flaws in your life skills, mental health, and relationships that were previously invisible. It can be quite distressing, or at least it was for me.