I agree. I'd much rather sleep at night and bond both consciously and get whatever happens "beneath the surface", well-rested during the day. The alternative i

I agree. I'd much rather sleep at night and bond both consciously and get whatever happens "beneath the surface", well-rested during the day. The alternative is that I'm cranky both night and day and only get that thing that happens "beneath the surface" without the awsome beautiful conscious bit that I personally really care about. But not all people get cranky from a lack of sleep, so this will vary between families!