I believe Adam Savage described the mechanism at play here very well https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9PcSMWbBA8&t=340s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9PcSMWb

I believe Adam Savage described the mechanism at play here very well https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9PcSMWbBA8&t=340s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9PcSMWbBA8&t=340s til 9:15 or so (~4min if your attention span is shit too) Tldw is that other peoples lifes exist even if you are not around. Counter intuitive, i know.