Yes but I think few metrics are as loaded and culturally mediated as "well behaved" for children. For a lot of people this could simply mean quiet and capable o

Yes but I think few metrics are as loaded and culturally mediated as "well behaved" for children. For a lot of people this could simply mean quiet and capable of extended occupation alone. It could mean different things for boys and for girls, depending on the expectations of the assessor. It seems like this is possibly self-assessment by a parent, which has what I hope are obvious issues. But even if you take say a teacher or other third party you run into a lot of the same problems with it.