The idea that the younger partner can't make his or her own decisions is deeply disturbing. It reflects a will to power and a scary conformist streak my ostens

The idea that the younger partner can't make his or her own decisions is deeply disturbing. It reflects a will to power and a scary conformist streak my ostensibly liberal people; somehow they seem to have forgotten that the entire premise of the sexual revolution was that people should be free to do as they like in the privacy of their own homes